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Okay so I met this guy awhile ago and he's been trying to "chill" with me for the longest which I'm learning is translation for I want to get in your pants, anywho so everytime he tries to make plans I'm busy (and not on purpose lol), so he calls me with an attitude saying how im playing hard to get and acting like im to good for him! So we get into a little "debate" and I pretty much cut him off anywho on to my point. I called up one of my good guy friends and told him what happened and he brought something to my attention that I never thought about before. He tells me that I should feel insulted and I really didnt understand why until he explained that when guys say that it kind of seems like he is saying that im "playing" hard to get as if im EASY to get on any other occasion and now I'm wondering if women should take that as an insult when men say things like that to them. Because personally I dont "play" anything LOL, I'm not easy to get but I also wont try and have a man bending over backwards to get my attention because thats just rude! I'm sure both men and women have a different take on this So I'm just wondering should the term "Playing hard to get" be considered an insult?
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He may just feel like ur not even tryin to show him attention and he may think you r feelin him more than u r. Dont always jump to the worst bcuz of what one prsn says
ReplyDeleteI guess it depends for me like I can agree that the saying playin hard to get can b a term referred as Easy becuz you shouldn't have to lower your standards for anyone that just shows you you have higher standards than the rest of the girls he been with. On the other hand, some girls just do that not knowing that boys are going to get irritated because the boy feels that he is trying to do what he can or has tried his hardest and still a girl wants to act like he aint did anything. HOPE THIS MADE SENSE LOL!!! NAYE <3
ReplyDeletei see where youre coming from. i would have probably taken that as an insult. only because i've had guys come on to me sexually and when i turn them down they say i'm playing hard to get. when in reality i just ain't feelin them. on he other hand he might just think youre really on to him and youre shy or somethin.
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