Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Playing Hard To Get....Who's Playing?


**NEWSFLASH** I will never post twice in one day unless its an emergency lol but I had to write this


Okay so I met this guy awhile ago and he's been trying to "chill" with me for the longest which I'm learning is translation for I want to get in your pants, anywho so everytime he tries to make plans I'm busy (and not on purpose lol), so he calls me with an attitude saying how im playing hard to get and acting like im to good for him! So we get into a little "debate" and I pretty much cut him off anywho on to my point. I called up one of my good guy friends and told him what happened and he brought something to my attention that I never thought about before. He tells me that I should feel insulted and I really didnt understand why until he explained that when guys say that it kind of seems like he is saying that im "playing" hard to get as if im EASY to get on any other occasion and now I'm wondering if women should take that as an insult when men say things like that to them. Because personally I dont "play" anything LOL, I'm not easy to get but I also wont try and have a man bending over backwards to get my attention because thats just rude! I'm sure both men and women have a different take on this So I'm just wondering should the term "Playing hard to get" be considered an insult?



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